BALANCING .... an art !!! Is this art mandatory ???
I remember my friends who used to say life has not done justice to them !!!!
I was reading something and I could recollect the very same words I used to listen from them :
"No matter how hard you try; sometimes you cant balance life........
The person you miss; may not miss you as much as you do.The person you love; may not love you as much as you do.
The person who means everything for you; for him you may not mean as much as he does for you."
And it used to sound non-sense for me then :-D ......... but today I can feel the depth of it!!! I used to laugh at them; today I feel like laughing at myself. I feel life has taken one full turn to make me realize with what feeling(s) these words used to pop out form the transmitter :-) There is so much of pain involved in it.
hmmmm why is it not as easy as concluding LHS (left hand side) = RHS (right hand side) as in a mathematical equation or chemical equation ????
Yes, it indeed is not easy at all !!! Because in life, unlike mathematical equation or chemical equation, I can work only on one side of the equation; the other side has to come from other end, and i am helpless about the other end :-(
My first interaction with the person I fell in love was explosive. But as time passed by there was miss-match in the wavelength, leave alone that, the direction of waves were opposite :-)
I hopped from one compromise to other, each time being bitterly disappointed when my knight in shining amour turned out to be the opposite of what I expected and wanted. Finally, I decided that the elusive emotion of love wasn’t meant for me and I reconciled myself to the fact that "Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance."
But still sometimes I am caught in the whirlpool of questions seeking for answers ..... sigh!!!
--- Is it really necessary for the equation to be balanced in life ??? ....life has to be an eauation is it??? cant it be just a statement where there is no balancing needed!!!
--- Is it necessary for waves to be in the same direction ??? .....after all opposite attracts !!!
--- Is it really necessary for the wavelengths to match ??? .....after all every person has his/her individuality !!!
posted by muskaan at 8:32 PM
12 Comments:
--- No dear, you can make your own statements, but when there are two people involved, it makes an equation!
--- You know what, life becomes really monotonous & boring if the other person is exactly like us... variety is the spice of life ;)
--- and I feel, Just because somebody doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
Hi Muskan! This is simply one of my nice reads today. Beautifully put. Nice of you to drop my blog, thus giving an opportunity to read yours....:)
You seek those answers as every one else does!
I guess, life is beyond the laws of physics! Just explore and learn!
Have a good day!
***dhwani***
U sound like "JYOTHI" not "DHWANI" !!!!!
thanx for pouring ur light (jyothi) :-)
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***contented***
thnx contented, both for ur comments n creeping in.
Not every thing can b explored by self!! .... v can learn thru' others' exploring as well :-)
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Surely we can and have to learn from others exploring as well! Guess thats what we all doing here...:)
***contented***
learing from others' experience ..... sign of wise man!!!
absolutely v r here for the same :-)
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cute innocent picture of the kid there....I too took one snap of a kid similar to that one. you can check that in my other blog "contented"...:)
muskaan, thanks for dropping by at my place.
what you have tried to convey in this post is something which i feel can never be explained, rationalized..all this stuff is just meant to make us slow down (in our ususal mundane everyday lives)take a deep breath and introspect.
at best what one can bargain for in such 'unequal equtions' (which life tends to throw at almost all of us) is - look at the bigger picture.
so i would share with you what works for me - hang on and keep the faith :)
Nice post Muskaan :)
Well I feel the wavelengths need to be the same for any relationship to work. If not it will be only compromises. I think compromises will reach a breakpoint. But at the same time the individuality of the person needs to be acknowledged :)
Thanks for visiting my blog. Enjoyed reading ur post :)
***contented***
you say "kid" and what flashes into my mind is "innocence".
hmmm nice picture on ur blog!!
how i wish .... i never grew n stayed a kid forever ....being fondled n pampered by everyone :-D
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***zzz***
//all this stuff is just meant to make us slow down
slow down!!! errrrr it indeed makes us feel as if life has come to standstill :-)
//so i would share with you what works for me - hang on and keep the faith :)
willingly or unwillingly v just have to hang on ...there is no other go ;-) ....yes ofcourse, how v hang on really varies. Cheers!!Like u i prefer hanging on looking at the bigger picture :-)
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//wavelengths need to be the same for any relationship
there r 2 kinds of relation: 1 which is imposed on us (father, mother, sister, brother, relatives.....) and the other which we choose(spouse, friends....). so matching of wavelength(s) in all relationships is quite not possible. A compromise at one stage or the other is a must....else things just doesnt work out ..... atleast not for me :-).
Ofcourse I agree that every thing should not b a compromise. Few things!! yes it can be ...and it has to be.
//individuality of the person needs to be acknowledged :)
yes! i completely agree.
I enjoyed ur blog as well :-)
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Isnt that everyone's wish...."Never grown up"...:-)
ahaaaaaaaaa you are smart!!!
-dhwani (ahem ahem)
***contented***
hmmmm dont know of every1 ..... for me! ...absolutely yes :-D
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***dhwani***
you can bet on that!! ;-)
after all m ur friend :-)
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