DEADLOCK ... Wishing I had or wishing I had not ... ???
Sometimes when I rest back to relax, there is always a flash back running in
the mind; which is sometimes good with aaaha memories and sometimes drives me crazy !!!!
Many a times I feel I must have done this ......hmmmm must not have done that ..... it should have been this way ........ why did it go that way ............ and and annnnnnd if I continue, I will surely fall short of space listing the dos and donts .........ha haaa.
Fascinatingly, sometimes its only the words or silence that catch my attention. Did you read it wrong .....hmmmm certainly no!!! I meant "words" and "silence" only ........yeah!!!!
I wonder what hurts more; saying something and wishing I had not; or saying nothing and wishing I had ????
When I think of this there are 2 things that come into my mind :
1. Speak less to the people whom you like the most…
Because if they can’t understand your silence
They can never understand your words…
Because if they can’t understand your silence
They can never understand your words…
2. Trouble is part of your life.
If you dont speak out and share it,
You dont give the person who loves you a chance to love you enough.
Now, both the statements are correct in their claims ....... but they are forming a deadlock for me to decide on my earlier question ....... isnt it ?????
what say ............ hmmmmm ??????
posted by muskaan at 3:57 AM
4 Comments:
It is indeed deadlock and I'm at times in that situation. But I guess we need to have a " bigger picture" and carry on. Just dwelling cant help alone...
I mean silence as not to think about things which doesnt let you go any forward...Just step back accept and just "watch"..."observe"....dont think and dont say anything...
//dont think
this is the toughest thing that i can ever do ..... but i dont say its impossible
thanx for your beautiful analysis :-)
as to u'r question, the situation tells the mind what to do, or what not to. in this case to speak out or not to.
both your statements are true, but the situation weighs it out! and the individual knows nest.
hey mouna, there is a going in kannada "manavemba markata" .... mind is like a monkey ...it keeps jumping.
at such confused state ..... usually mind tends to have loots of ideas n ways ..... how does one decide on the ri8 way ...hmmmm ...... aaahem tough job !!!
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