DEADLOCK ... Wishing I had or wishing I had not ... ???

Sometimes when I rest back to relax, there is always a flash back running in

the mind; which is sometimes good with aaaha memories and sometimes drives me crazy !!!!

Many a times I feel I must have done this ......hmmmm must not have done that ..... it should have been this way ........ why did it go that way ............ and and annnnnnd if I continue, I will surely fall short of space listing the dos and donts .........ha haaa.

Fascinatingly, sometimes its only the words or silence that catch my attention. Did you read it wrong .....hmmmm certainly no!!! I meant "words" and "silence" only ........yeah!!!!

I wonder what hurts more; saying something and wishing I had not; or saying nothing and wishing I had ????

When I think of this there are 2 things that come into my mind :

1. Speak less to the people whom you like the most…
Because if they can’t understand your silence
They can never understand your words…

2. Trouble is part of your life.

If you dont speak out and share it,

You dont give the person who loves you a chance to love you enough.

Now, both the statements are correct in their claims ....... but they are forming a deadlock for me to decide on my earlier question ....... isnt it ?????

what say ............ hmmmmm ??????